DISCLAIMER: The Country Club of Life (here-in-after referred to as CC of Life) is a virtual life coaching and training system. It is a holistic training bent on the development of the "Whole" person. The system is a Tried, Proven, and Custom-developed testing into our students' lives', Physically, Emotionally, Spiritually, Intellectually, Financially, and Socially. Our coaching techniques and methods are rooted in the belief in Intelligent Design. Why? With over 30 years of clinical observation, trial, and research, we have observed that determining "Whose" we are will be critical to eventually discovering "Who" we are – and accepting the limitations of our discovery. "Who" we are and being anything one makes their minds to be are typically the goals of most coaching techniques. Our research, trials, and findings strongly rebuke that approach. It is only through determining where we came from that we can determine where we're going. It is only through the acceptance of our defects of character and limitations that we can develop a successful focused, workable, and closely monitored game plan for our students. However, we do not reject and do not attempt to change the findings and opinions of contrarians. We operate solely from a position of attraction - not promotion or opposition. Experience has shown us many want what we offer, making it unnecessary to debate the pundits.

 

CC of Life DOES NOT suggest that the system will guarantee success.  WE CAN ONLY SUGGEST OUR STUDENTS SUBSCRIBE TO OUR MOTTO. " DO WHAT MOST WON'T – ENJOY WHAT MOST NEVER WILL"

 

We believe our commitment to follow biblical principles puts certain constraints on us. Our commitment is not an ala carte one. Does this mean we are fanatical or rigid in our lives? ABSOLUTELY NOT! We heart-fully try through rigorous accountability to not be hypocritical and practice the following principles in our daily lives.

 

·      We ADMIT we are powerless over our character defects and temporal substances and the people, places, and things we may encounter today. WE PLAY OUR GAME.

 

·     We begin each day by shaping our daily game plan in a Good Orderly Direction (G.O.D.). IT IS ONLY A GUIDE.

 

·     We make contact with our accountability at the start of each day and make contact as needed throughout the day. WE NEVER PLAY LIFE ALONE.

 

·      WE BUILD OUR GRATITUDE LIST DAILY, no matter what our circumstances may be. This practice keeps our spiritual reflexes finely tuned. GRATITUDE UNLOCKS THE FULLNESS OF LIFE.

 

·      We FEARLESSLY, MORALLY and with rigorous honesty look aND own our part in things, and when we are wrong, we promptly admit it – UNLESS IT WILL HURT OURSELVES OR OTHERS.

 

·      We inconvenience ourselves regularly (At a cost to ourselves if necessary) to demonstrate our powerlessness and obedience. I CAN'T; GOD CAN, LET GOD BE GOD.

 

·      We reach out to others through our character defects and temporal substances to remind ourselves from where we came. "THERE BUT FOR THE GRACE OF GOD GO I."

 

·      WE INCREASE OUR CONSCIOUSNESS OF GOD through Prayer, Meditation, Reflection, Gratitude, Study (Going In), and Action (Going Out). WE PRACTICE GOD'S PRESENCE DAILY.

 

·      WE RESPOND – WE DON'T REACT. Reactors attack and move away, whereas Responders move toward a situation and bring stability to it. THIS RESPONSE COMES FROM THE SHAPING OF THE PREVIOUS STEPS.

 

·      WE KEEP LIFE SIMPLE – ONE DAY AT A TIME!

 

 

As with all clubs, we have "Local Rules" that govern play:

·   When life gives us a bad break...If we can't overcome the situation, use it for the betterment of another person, place, or thing. There is no greater tragedy in life than allowing a life learning experience to go waste to self-pity and/or self-centeredness, deception, manipulation, etc.

·   When angry, we hold off reacting until tomorrow, especially if we’re planning to get verbal. We can always say it tomorrow. Chances are when tomorrow comes; we will not need to say it. ACT - NEVER REACT!

·   When someone hurts and/or wrongs us...We look at the hurts and/or wrongs we have caused others. We DO NOT minimize and score our hurts and/or wrongs others may have caused us. If we are rigorously honest with ourselves, we will grieve for those who hurt and/or harm us. God will avenge. Life will square up with them. Not in our time - But when Life is ready.  Want to break par here? MASTER this one.

·  "ENTITLED" is a word we have eliminated from our vocabulary. We are entitled to nothing in life, and the faster we understand and accept this fact, the more so-called "lucky" breaks we'll get. As Ben Hogan said, "The more I practice, the luckier I seem to get."

·  WE ALWAYS remain calm...When life mounts a charge, step back. Plan DON'T Project. Take one issue at a time. Don't fall victim to a gang on.

·   WE "INSULATE" NEVER "ISOLATE"…

·  We speak or meet with your accountability partner/caddie regularly.

·   Get involved in an encouraging environment.

·  We inconvenience ourselves regularly to increase our dependence on God. We do it even at a cost to ourselves; confident God will supply our needs - and then some.

· Suicide is ALWAYS a long-term solution to a short-term problem. NO EXCEPTIONS

 

Follow our path, accept who you are and where you are right now, hook up with a caddie and make an immovable commitment and we will train you to find your game like you never thought possible.

 

 

"If I Do What Most Won't - I Will Enjoy What Most Never Will"

 

 

 

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